I recently flew on PR537 from Manila to Bali (MNL-DPS) on September 28, 2024, and I was quite disappointed with how the flight attendant in my row treated me.
I asked the flight attendant, in Tagalog, if I could move to a different seat because the man beside me was coughing loudly, and I was worried about getting sick. She informed me that purchasing a seat onboard wasn’t possible and added that most flights are full. I understood that and didn’t push further, but I was genuinely concerned about my health due to the man’s constant coughing. What I didn’t understand was why his loud coughing didn’t seem to concern the flight attendants at all.
A short while later, a foreign passenger (an American woman) sitting across from me asked if she could move to an empty seat, and the same flight attendant immediately allowed her to switch seats without hesitation. The flight attendant even suggested that the Filipino man sitting beside the foreigner could also move to a different seat.
However, she never offered me the same courtesy, even though I had asked first due to a valid health concern.
I couldn't help but think:
* Was my request ignored because I’m Filipino? Why was a foreigner’s request accommodated while mine wasn’t?
* Why didn’t the crew offer a mask to the passenger who was coughing so loudly? I had my own mask on, even though I wasn’t sick.
Throughout the rest of the flight, the same flight attendant barely interacted with me, and during the meal service, she didn’t even ask me properly what I wanted to eat.
To be clear, I didn’t speak to her disrespectfully. I even mentioned that I was willing to pay to move seats because I didn’t want to cause any trouble. But I was left feeling dismissed and ignored.
I kindly request that your flight attendants show more consideration and empathy towards passengers, especially when they are being polite. As someone who travels frequently between Bali and other destinations, I have never experienced such selective and insincere hospitality.
For someone like me who rarely makes requests during flights, this experience was quite disappointing.